Episode 13

John and the Cyberbullies

In this episode, join John, a brave and determined young gamer, as he faces the challenge of dealing with cyberbullies. John loves playing video games and spends hours exploring online worlds, solving puzzles, and teaming up with friends. But one day, he starts receiving cruel and relentless messages from an unknown person, saying things like, “You’re terrible at this game. Everyone hates you,” and “I know how to find you. No one will even miss you.”

Feeling trapped and unable to escape the negativity, John confides in his mom. She arranges for him to talk to the school counselor, Ms. Rivera, who listens carefully and gives John valuable advice. She acknowledges that gaming is John’s way of escaping from the real world and having fun and teaches him strategies to deal with mean people online. John learns to block and report bullies, stay safe by not sharing personal information, and focus on positive interactions.

With his mom's and Ms. Rivera's support, John starts to feel stronger. He finds new hobbies like reading and playing basketball but doesn’t give up on gaming. Instead, he uses the strategies he learned to improve his online experience. One day, John shares his story with his classmates, encouraging them to talk to someone they trust if they ever feel down because of something online. He realizes he has become a digital defender, ready to use his experience to help others.

Main Learning Points:

  • Recognize Cyber Bullying: Understand the impact of mean messages and how to identify cyberbullying.
  • Seek Support: Learn the importance of talking to trusted adults when facing online challenges.
  • Develop Coping Strategies: Discover ways to block and report bullies and focus on positive interactions.
  • Empower Others: See how sharing personal experiences can help others facing similar situations.

Join us as John’s adventure unfolds. This episode is perfect for children and their families, providing both entertainment and essential knowledge about dealing with cyberbullying. It teaches young listeners the importance of seeking support, developing coping strategies, and empowering others to stand up against online negativity.

Transcript

John loved playing video games. He spent hours exploring online worlds, solving puzzles, and teaming up with friends online. But one day, something changed. He started receiving mean messages from someone he didn’t know. The messages were cruel and relentless, saying things like, “You’re terrible at this game. Everyone hates you.” and "I know how to find you. No one will even miss you."

At first, John tried to ignore the messages, but they kept coming. He felt trapped because video games were his escape from the real world. Now, even his favorite hobby was filled with negativity. He didn’t feel like he could just get offline because gaming was where he connected with his friends and found joy. The mean messages made him feel like there was no safe place left.

One evening, after reading another hurtful comment, he burst into tears. His mom noticed and gently asked, “John, what’s going on? You seem really upset.”

John hesitated, his voice shaking as he said, “Someone is sending me really mean messages online. They keep saying horrible things about me, and I don’t know what to do.”

His mom hugged him tightly and said, “I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It must be really hard to deal with those kinds of messages.”

John nodded, tears streaming down his face. “I just feel like there’s no escape. Even my games aren’t fun anymore.”

His mom took a deep breath and said, “You know, sometimes people say mean things because they’re unhappy themselves. It doesn’t make it right, but it helps to remember that it’s not about you. You’re amazing just the way you are.”

The next day, John’s mom arranged for him to talk to the school counselor, Ms. Rivera. She listened carefully and gave John some great advice. “John, I understand that gaming is your way of escaping from the real world and having fun. It’s important to have those spaces where you feel happy and connected. But if things online start feeling tough, it’s okay to step away for a bit,” Ms. Rivera said. “It might be hard to shut out those negative voices at first, but you can learn to do it with some practice. And remember, the only people who really matter are the ones who treat you well, both online and offline.”

Ms. Rivera also taught John some strategies for dealing with mean people online. She showed him how to block and report bullies and how to stay safe by not sharing personal information. She encouraged him to focus on the positive interactions and to remember that he had the power to control his online experience.

With the support of his mom and Ms. Rivera, John started to feel stronger. He learned to focus on the positive things in his life and the people who cared about him. He also found new hobbies, like reading and playing basketball, which made him happy, but he didn’t give up on gaming. Instead, he used the strategies he learned to make his online experience better.

One day, John decided to share his story with his classmates. “I want you all to know that if you’re ever feeling down because of something online, you’re not alone,” he said. “Talk to someone you trust, and remember, being strong doesn’t happen overnight. It’s about learning and growing from these experiences. You’ve got this.”

His classmates clapped and cheered, and John felt a warm glow inside. He realized that he had become a digital defender, ready to use his experience to help others. He had faced a tough situation and come out stronger, ready to help others do the same.

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Angeline Corvaglia is the founder and main creative lead of Data Girl and Friends. She is on a mission to empower young people, their parents, and educators to navigate the complexities of online safety and AI literacy.

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